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Daily Writing Journal: What Motivates Me..

Healthy Competition 


This isn't about winning or coming first but keeping in the race does keep me on my toes. Even if a person comes last at least they still  finish. This is why you are told to keep with like-minded people who inspire you. It does matter if you are fast or slow - it can keep you on focus.

Pressure and desperation in comfort zone: When things become intolerable 


Normally I tend to be laid back until things reach a brink, and as soon as it gets intolerable, I tend to act. I guess it's because the stakes become higher.  Otherwise, I tend to stay in my comfort zone. When comfort zones become fire zones, I move on.

 Recognition, Praise & Thank you 


Professionally this is a big one, also in writing. Even just saying a simple thank you is recognition and praise enough, keeps me motivated to keep working. When someone left a five star review for one of my books, I instantly became motivated to strive for a better standard. Praise makes me strive for the next level.

Helping others


I'm more motivated in doing things for others than myself. I wish I could treat myself as another person, I'd be so pampered. I'm trying to change that, as in doing more for myself.

Finally 

Money is not a big factor once I have enough or not feel cheated. I guess there are lots more that motivate me but these will do for today.

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