Real Life: Up date on 'I like him' situation

Hey everyone!

It's been difficult week with a lot of things going on. I managed to complete a huge goal of mine at work, which was super stressful, using the procrastination book's strategy. It wasn't easy because I stall but eventually I did what I had to do.

so Mr Cool Dude and been texting me. Well we have been texting each other, and he's very cute. I like him, though I haven't said that to him nor has he told me. Lots of Emojis flying backwards and forwards. He's very sweet and makes me laugh. So it's kind of like a textionship at the moment. Nah I lie, we've chatted a few times, like everyday apart from today - well we did briefly. However I've not met him so it's all just non-physical. Because you get on with someone doesn't mean there will be that attraction in real life. Still he's cute and funny.

Nothing is happening with the First Guy. You fancy someone, don't get the opportunity to get to know them in a different way. I never got the opening to ask about drinks . At times there is an opening line where you can say okay this that or the other. Also stuff happened so he's being funny with me.

Mr Cool Dude is different, he is a millennial, so really into all things digital. Not sure when we are going to meet, I don't know. Anyway it's nice. He's got a lovely voice, nice timber to it. I tease him a lot about a few things and he takes it on the chin. Slightly nerves on my part, but he's very charming and intuitive. I'm enjoying this in the present because it is what it it.

I'm relaxed about it. In the past relationships were about it was this, that and other. They didn't work out the way I thought they would, so taking this as it.

I've not read any books lately. I've just been reading this procrastination book and seeing how it goes.

Nothing more because I've got Mr Cool Dude on the brain. I'll let you know what happens, like if were actually meet, and what happens. Or if it fizzles out. Oh well.

Have a great weekend

BD xxx

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