Real Life: Does he like me? Should I ask him for a drink...sort of?

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I'm not a teenager any more, nor am I in high school but there is this guy I like and I'm wondering how to go about it...like seeing if there is some attraction or something. Should I ask him out of a drink? I don't know. I could ask him out for a drink. It's a bit all teenagish but this is real life not some romance novel. He's also not my normal type - whatever that is. Not sure.

I'm can quite bolshy nd apparently stropy....well so I'm told. I'll find a way to ask him out for a drink. Does he like me? Yeah, the signs are there. What signs you may ask if he hasn't asked me out. The signs, so I need to test the signs and the only way by doing that is asking him out for a drink. Well probably get a group together and go for a drink.

What if he says no? Then I'll know he doesn't fancy me. If I do think he fancies me why hasn't he asked me out? Well above I mentioned the signs and I can be quite bolshy as well.

So flirting non-flirting lines. Touch arm - 'Have you working out?" Only works if man had strong arms. I once did that to a dude who had no muscle tone, and was surprised.

I don't know. However I've liked him for some time so I need to do something either go see if the attraction is real or just a crush. Ya know what I mean. So so so so so it could be

I don't want to chicken out, yet I'm also afraid of starting something. Okay I'll report back on this next week.

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